Omoiyari: The Japanese Art of Compassion

Longhurst (Japonisme) explains the Japanese practice of omoiyari, or the anticipation of the needs of others in an altruistic way, in this accessible guide. Omoiyari, she writes, can make the world a better place, because “even the smallest of considerate actions can make a world of difference.” To that end, she recommends avoiding waste, practicing cleanliness, listening with “polite conscientiousness,” and welcoming others with selfless hospitality. Longhurst invites readers to incorporate compassion into their daily lives, and Japanese axioms such as “good fortune can exist in what gets left behind” and concepts—harmonious cohesion, balance, and unity—form the basis of her suggestions for peaceable living, selflessness, and paying respect through acts big and small. Longhurst shares a number of ways to put these principles into practice, including osouji—the once-a-year cleansing of one’s home—wrapping gifts with small cotton hand towels to show appreciation, or making Japanese pancakes for guests as an expression of hospitality. Also provided are tips for being less wasteful, gettting (and staying) organized, and appreciating the beauty in “the most mundane objects.” The result is a rich introduction to a way of life centered on empathy. (June)