Girl on the Couch: Life, Love, and Confessions of a Normal Neurotic
Lorna Martin, . . Villard, $14 (352pp) ISBN 978-0-345-50360-2
Inspired by her weekly column “Conversations with My Therapist,” Scottish journalist Martin takes a captivating look at one woman's adventure in psychotherapy. Heading into her mid-30s, Martin felt as though “time were running out”; with most of her friends married with children, Martin wanted to “love life again rather than feel it is an unbearable uphill struggle.” Shortly after this revelation, she committed to one year with a therapist she calls “Dr. J” and began to peel back the “layer of armor” that she had spent her whole life building to protect herself. While most of her therapy time is spent obsessing over past, present and possible future relationships (including her relationship with Dr. J), Martin also explores the effect her therapy has on her everyday life and her relationship with her family. Skillfully dodging the possibility of becoming yet another memoir of unrelenting self-praise, Martin's narrative is shamelessly funny, and she misses no opportunity for self-deprecating humor or cringe-inducing scenes. It's impossible not to root for Martin as she creates her own happy ending.
Reviewed on: 11/24/2008
Genre: Nonfiction