Mindreader: The New Science of Deciphering What People Really Think, What They Really Want, and Who They Really Are

This perceptive volume by psychotherapist Lieberman (Never Get Angry Again) imparts techniques to better understand the thoughts, motivations, and emotions of others. He draws on his psychology background to offer pointers on decoding someone’s values, mental health, honesty, and hidden emotions, and asserts that the order in which someone talks about others can reveal their true feelings. For example, Lieberman recounts catching up with a friend who paraded numerous photos of his dog before briefly showing two of his kids, suggesting his friend had a complicated relationship with his children that he didn’t want to dwell on. Examining how others react to challenges can indicate their general outlook, the author contends, noting that those who make such remarks as “everything is ruined” tend to have poor mental health because they think in absolutist terms that view setbacks as indicative of complete failure. Lieberman also discusses how to spot a lie, positing that those with something to hide might angle their bodies toward the exit or give long-winded defenses against accusations. The author doesn’t provide much research to support his claims, but readers will find his straightforward explanations logical and reasonable. This accessible pop psychology volume makes for a solid primer on getting into other people’s heads. (Aug.)