The Blessing of a Skinned Knee: Using Jewish Teachings to Raise Self-Reliant Children

Frustrated with a therapeutic practice that ""shifted too frequently to be an anchor"" for parents struggling with issues like overindulgence and overscheduling, clinical psychologist Mogel turned to her religious heritage for ways to help her clientsDand her own familyD""find grace and security"" in an increasingly complex world. ""In the time-tested lessons of Judaism, I discovered insights and practical tools that spoke directly to these issues,"" writes Mogel, who left her psychology practice in order ""to help parents look at their children's anxieties and desires using a different lens."" Digging into the rich traditions of the Torah, the Talmud and other Jewish teachings, Mogel builds a parenting blueprint that draws on core spiritual values relevant to families of all faiths. With warmth and humor, she offers strategies for encouraging respect and gratitude in children, and cautions against overprotection (""we treat our children's lives like we're cruise ship directors who must get them to their destinationDadulthoodDsmoothly, without their feeling even the slightest bump or wave"") and the pressure of ""Lake Wobegon parenting"" (a reference to Garrison Keillor's fictional town where ""all the children are above average""). Her thoughtful observations consistently illuminate and reassure. Impassioned, lyrical and eminently practical, this inspiring volume is a real treasure. Agent, Betsy Amster. (Jan.)